Fed up of getting little success with your dating efforts? It may be that some commonly accepted dating techniques are totally spoiling your chances of dating the women you want. Here are four common dating mistakes committed by most men that turn women off right from the start. Eliminate them from your game and you’ll enjoy greater dating success.

This mistake seems innocuous at first glance but it is something gorgeous girls can pick up on instantly and it turns them off big style. When a guy wants to get it on with a woman, a favourite tactic is to offer to buy presents – drinks, dinner, flowers etc. – to win her favour. Seems like a pretty nice thing to do yes? I mean, this is common, every guy does it don’t they and girls expect it? Sure, they’ll take your gifts, but they won’t be interested in you. Because when you buy a girl these things, you are communicating to her something you definitely don’t want to: lack of self confidence. You are saying “I know I’m a bit boring and that I’m not that good looking so I’ll buy you gifts so you’ll be into me.” Not what you want to say about yourself, agreed? Women, especially very attractive ones, get this all the time and it turns them off – as you’ll find out after you’ve been sucker number 100 who’s wasted his money on trying to bribe her. Bad, bad, bad don’t do this! Instead, get her to BUY YOU a drink to apologize for “looking at my ass like it’s a juicy peach” and ask her “if she could be a bit less obvious as everyone has noticed and it’s embarrassing!” Can you see the differences in what you are communicating here?

OK, you’ve spotted a cutie and you want to get it on with her. You want to make a good impression so, you get your act together, and you make a good confident approach. Maybe you’ve teased her a little, made her laugh and you most definitely haven’t kissed up. Feeling like this is going better than you imagined, you begin to talk about your great job, your super fast sports car, your earnings, your cool apartment yadda, yadda, yadda. Hey, why didn’t you just wear a tee-shirt with “MEAL TICKET HERE” on the front and back? Here comes the scoop: When you do this, you are trying to impress her with something other than yourself. You are seeking approval, and you don’t think you can get it just by being yourself. Girls pick up on this kind if stuff instantly and it’s a turn off. So reverse this. Ask her “Do you earn good money? I only date women who earn good money so they can support me and give me the standard of living I deserve!” This kind of reversal works a treat with women, try it and see for yourself!

One of the biggest mistakes most guys make when looking for a new date is obsessing over one woman. They see a gorgeous girl and decide to go over and totally blow the gig by hanging around like a bad smell. I bet you’ve done this and I bet you know loads of guys who do it and I’ll bet it’s always had the same outcome: no deal dude! Hanging around one woman is uncool, it gets on their nerves, it freaks them out and the nicer you are to her and the more you persist, the more freaked she gets and will do anything just to fob you off. Why? Because you are behaving like a little love-struck puppy who follows his master everywhere! Is that the quality a beautiful woman seeks in a man?

Make sure these aren’t part of your dating game and remember, the only way to make this knowledge work for you is to take action! If you avoid these mistakes, you will get more dates.